There’s phone sex, chat-room sex, and make-up sex, but when it comes right down to it, the very best kind of sex may be car sex: It’s spontaneous, slightly taboo, and it has an element of exhibitionism. Best of all, whatever weird, kinky things you may be into, this is the one type of sex most girls won’t have a problem with.

Before you get in the car

Follow her over to her side of the vehicle and test the waters. Instead of opening the door, back up against it and pull her close for some tongue-on-tongue action.

After your kiss

Help her into the car, with your hand gliding from the small of her back down to her ass for a quick “hello.”

While you’re driving

Use stop signs, red lights, and delays in traffic as an excuse to get her engine revving: Blow into her ear. Trace your fingertips up and in between her thighs- slowly. Get her wet by doing this as much as she’ll let you. But don’t take it too far. Only use one hand, and make sure you leave her wanting more.

When you finally do pull over

Play up the awkwardness of crawling over the seat and into the back of the car. The confined space will add to the excitement. Center her in the middle of the backseat and tell her to use the back of the driver and passenger seats as footrests while you guide yourself into “the driver’s seat.” With the angle you both will get, it’ll be a ride she’ll never forget.

The human population of this planet has each and every one of its members living with a different mindset and, therefore, a different perception about the activities of life is bound to be experienced by all of them. One of those activities is the way to have fun. This particular activity has been analysed in different ways by different persons.

However, the time is now one that sees a common consensus about naked cruises being the best option to take when one wants to have fun.

The word taboo is no longer associated with the word naked and, therefore, many new and different forms of developments have taken place.

Some of them have been in the field of arts while some have been in the sector of business. One of the examples of the latter kind has been the setting up of nude cruises all over the world. The speciality of these cruises is much more than what their name suggests. Hence, being naked is not the only major feature of naked cruises as there are many more things that one can do in any one of these cruises.

These cruises are now being run in different corners of the world and, therefore, human beings belonging to any race or nationality are able to have a good time on these cruises.

The primary features of these cruises apart from being able to reside the biblical form of Adam and Eve, is the feature of being able to abstain oneself from the need to follow rules.

Hence, there are no rules to be followed along with no fixed timings to have food. One can do what one pleases on these cruises. It goes without saying that the standard amenities that are featured on normal cruises are a part of these cruises as well. The difference lies in the features which have been specified in the earlier paragraphs.

Hence, naked cruises are now becoming the primary element of the thought of a good vacation. The environmental surroundings of any one of these cruises are quite out of the world given the fact that all the facilities and features are there to be enjoyed in the middle of the ocean.

Hence, one also gets the feeling of stepping away from the din of the civilized world into the domain of silence and peace. The features of naked cruises have, therefore, been successful in their primary objective of harvesting absolute pleasure and that too on a global scale. To be very brief, now almost each and every living soul on this planet has heard about these cruises.

The reason for this has also been the advent of the online medium in the form of websites. There are many websites which give information specific to naked cruises and there are also many websites that give information about naked cruises as one of their services.

Naked cruises are, therefore, the talk of the world with different types of these cruises being run all over the world.

This means that your vocal tonality, pacing, and dirty talk phrases must compensate for this lack through igniting your man’s fantasy – replacing what’s physically unavailable with a mental projection of what is possible.  Fortunately, since a man’s fantasy can run itself and conjures up only his upmost sexual ideals, he will envision you as the fantasy girl of his dreams – so long as you can trigger his fantasy to do it right.

Here are a couple things to focus on when learning how to talk dirty on the phone to your man that will inspire the proper imagery in his fantasy mind:

1)  Set The Stage:        http://0845.com/J7d

When starting to talk dirty on the phone, paint a mental picture of where you are and what you’re doing.  If you ask him what he’s doing right now, he will most likely respond with the same question.  You can reply with something like “Oh, I’m just laying around in my silky black nighty all by myself, thinking about you and how hot you make me…”

This type of descriptive dirty talk phrase triggers his mind to perceive what that scenario looks like.  Once the stage has been set in his fantasy, you can move on.

2)  Get the “Go”:        http://0845.com/J7d

Talking dirty on the phone obviously leads to mutual masturbation.  But before you get all hot and heavy with your dirty talk, make sure to know if that is possible for the both of you to do at that moment.  Since you already asked what he was doing – right now – you will have an idea if masturbation is even possible on his end.  If its not, you might want to save your phone sex for another time.

If you DO “get the go” you can take your dirty talk to the next level.  Saying something like “Oh my god, I’ve been so horny all day I can’t stop touching myself!” in a coy, innocent manor will add to his fantasy (in which the stage is already set) by including you masturbating in whatever way his personal fantasy thinks is the hottest way possible.  

3)  Do the Deed:       http://0845.com/J7d

Once your dirty talk has now set the stage and gotten the green light, its time to get down to talking dirty on the phone and getting super sexual.  Your dirty talk thus far has given him a mental image that you now get to manipulate in his mind.  He’s thinking about you looking hot and masturbating, so now you’d ask “Do you like when I touch myself for you?” (or whatever way you’d like to say it, using any dirty words or dirty talk phrases you know)  in which case his answer will obviously be “yes.”  You can then follow up with “Good cause I’m doing it right now”.  Music to his ears.

If you’re doing the dirty deed, he will start as well.  Ask him if he’s touching himself, or just demand that he does.  This is where your real phone sex starts to escalate into something super hot and heavy for both of you.  You then start talking dirty to your man the way you would normally.  His masturbation replaces your touch, his fantasy replaces your presence, and your voice is in total control of it all.

Learning how to talk dirty to your man on the phone means understanding how your dirty talk affects him while the two of you are apart.  If you follow this three step method you will find it much easier to talk dirty on the phone as you would talking dirty in real life.  It’s just a matter of learning how to talk dirty to your man by manipulating his fantasy mind as the top priority of your dirty talk.

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Thanks for reading and I wish you all the success!

JanuszJanulis

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Sex therapy is simply therapy that specifically addresses sexual problems. A sex therapist can be considered a specialist in the general field of therapy in the same way that a urologist is considered a specialist in the general field of medicine. Though the practice of sex therapy varies widely, most of these specialists have the following in common.

Sex therapy is typically a short term (6 to 15 weeks) solution focused intervention. Solution focused means that there are concrete goals with which to gauge progress, that there is a conscious utilization of client’s strengths, and that homework assignments are utilized to encourage active steps toward one’s goals.

While more general relationship issues are an integral part of sex therapy, they are not the primary issue. Sex therapists treat the sexual problem directly as opposed to assuming that if a couple resolves their other relationship issues, their sexual functioning will eventually improve. Since relationship issues are an integral part of sex therapy, and often one of the dynamics that perpetuates the sexual problem, couples who meet their goals in sex therapy invariably improve functioning in other areas of their relationship as well. When relationship issues are the primary problem (difficulty negotiating conflict, difficulty negotiating value systems, difference in attachment styles, etc.), then more traditional couples therapy is more appropriate. 

Sex therapy is a process grounded in the science of sexuality, called sexology, not in the ideology or morality of our culture. Our world is filled with judgments about what sexual behavior is “normal” or acceptable. As long as nobody’s basic rights are being violated, a sex therapist strives to be nonjudgmental, with the intent of helping a couple meet their goals from within their own value system. A sex therapist can provide information about what behaviors are statistically common and uncommon, and can help a client explore their own value system, but cannot decide for the client what behaviors are morally acceptable.

One of the assumptions of sex therapy is that physical intimacy is a natural process and drive for couples. If there’s a problem with how this drive plays out in the relationship, it’s further assumed that “roadblocks” have developed that are impeding the couple’s natural process. The role of sex therapy is to identify and assist with the resolution or management of these roadblocks such that the couple is free to do what comes naturally. Common (and simplified) examples of roadblocks include anxiety related to sexuality, feelings of rejection, or other emotions that impede a man or woman’s ability to be intimate. Specific medical problems can lead to the formation of roadblocks if a couple is not able to adjust to changes in sexuality that accompany the medical problem. Difficulty with sexual communication is probably the most common roadblock, but one that couples overcome regularly in sex therapy.

Sex therapy is talk therapy. There is no sexual touching during sessions. Typically there will be assignments given that will expose a couple’s roadblocks and provide an opportunity for resolution. Since the experiential part of improving one’s sex life always happens outside of sessions, it’s critical that couples are able to complete the exercises. Though sex therapy is typically a very successful intervention, consistently not completing homework assignments is the number one cause of treatment failure.

Sex therapy is almost always done in the context of a couple’s relationship, with both partners involved in the therapeutic process. One of the sayings in sex therapy is that “it doesn’t matter who brought the problem to the relationship, the solution always lies with the couple.” It’s also invariably the case that both partners have a role in maintaining whatever roadblock exists, and thus it’s important that both partners be an active part of the solution. In certain situations it’s appropriate to do sex therapy in the context of seeing an individual; this is the case if someone does not have a partner, or if a person’s struggle with their own sexuality is significant enough that they need to get some resolution personally before they can be available to their partner. In any case, a sex therapist can help the client identify the setting that’s likely to be most beneficial.

A woman can feel neglected if her partner spends too much time out with his friends or if he devotes his time to the love of sports. She will probably explode if she finds out any of his free time involves phone sex or computer online chat. It’s the feeling of being left out or not measuring up to the standards of a successful relationship.

Sexuality and intimacy are a part of love and contribute to our well being and happiness, in a long term relationship. Most women want their partner to be sexually exclusive to them. We know that both men and women are wired different and react very different to sexual issues and situations. Is it wrong to view a nude magazine or make a phone sex call? Does it hurt the relationship or create problems? If asked these questions most women would be upset if their partner is engaging in solo masturbation, but whether this is creating an actual problem is really in one’s perception.

Our Sexual Fantasies:

Phone sex is anonymous and private. A man can be very content in his relationship, but may secretly desire a sexual fantasy that may offend his partner or he may be too shy to express himself. Some men call phone sex lines to explore their fantasies and find pleasure in masturbation. We all explore our bodies, some men need to release bottled up kinky thoughts.

It can be thought of as Phone Counseling, a warm voice to listen too and friendly chat conversation that takes the stress out of a long hard day. These men are not looking for relationships just a quick release and openness. A chance to discuss any topic or explore, with no strings attached. It can be a few minutes or a lengthy detailed session talking about fetishes and fantasies that probably wouldn’t normally explored or ever admitted too or simply to seek advice and tips for better sex with their partners.

Calling a phone sex line means a man can experiment and never have to worry about catching an STD, with risky sexual behavior or unprotected sex with multiple partners or the temptation of an affair. He goes back to his loving relationship and the call takes care of his sexual cravings and curiosity Phone sex does not hurt a relationship but rather is a safe outlet to explore one sexual thoughts and needs without cheating.

Do you worry that you are addicted to porn? If you are not sure if your porn interest is completely natural and of a curious nature, or if you may have an addiction, it’s important that you determine this. If you find that you may be addicted to porn, there are many great resources that will help you get through your addiction and take back control of your life. Here are some questions that will help you decide if you are displaying some common signs of porn.

1. Do you find yourself looking at porn very often, whether it’s online or offline? This might include looking at porn online when your spouse and children are sleeping or when they are gone. You might think of looking at the porn as soon as they leave or go to sleep, and you might have been caught looking at porn before.

2. Do you find yourself pulling up porn online while you’re at work? Perhaps you have had the urge to look at porn online while you’re on your work computer, and you may have even been caught doing this. If you have been caught looking at porn while you’re at work and if that doesn’t deter you from continuing to look at porn, you may have a porn addiction.

3. Do you think about porn all the time? If you see a woman or man and you think automatically of porn or if you think of porn continuously, you may have a porn addiction that needs to be addressed. A good way to determine whether you are thinking of porn too much is to get a piece of paper and carry it with you. Each time that you think of porn, make a mark on this paper. At the end of the day, count up how many times you have thought of porn for the day.

4. Do you lose track of time looking at porn? Maybe you have been so immersed in looking at porn that you have lost track of time and realized suddenly that you have been looking at porn for several hours or that you have missed a meeting or appointment or even ended up late for work.

5. Have you ever been tempted to look at porn involving children or have you actually looked at child pornography? If you have looked at child pornography or you have been tempted to do so, it is imperative that you seek help immediately. Remember that getting help, while it may feel embarrassing, is better than allowing an obsession of this nature to continue. Even if you have never looked at it but have been tempted to do so, you must still seek help so that it doesn’t progress.

6. Have you tried to get your spouse to experiment or do something that you have seen on a porn video? While this in itself is certainly not a sure sign of an addiction, you should consider whether you have ever done something that has made your spouse or partner feel uncomfortable or embarrassed. If there are problems in your marriage or in your life due to you looking at or being interested in porn, you may want to seek help in order to save your relationship.

If you have answered yes to most of these questions, you may have an addiction to porn and seeking help now is the best possible thing you can do.

Most people are brought up with an unhealthy attitude towards sex. The very thought of sex beyond 60 raises eyebrows. Enjoying a healthy sexual relationship beyond the age of 60, takes more than a physical desire. One has to undo all the taboos placed by traditional thinking and realize that sex could be a natural channel for expression.

A Natural Part of Our Lives

Before we get into this topic, we need to pause, get our thoughts aligned and start communicating on the same wavelength. Since the moment we are born, we have this inborn instinct inside us about sex. This feeling lies deep-rooted inside us, waiting for a proper channel for expression.

In the journey called life, there comes a right time for the proper channels to open up. Just as every seed needs to be cared for as it experiences the passage of time, this feeling takes time to bloom to a full-fledged state. The thoughts, feelings and emotions felt and experienced by our mother regarding sex, are subtly relayed to our minds from the very moment of our conception. Social Barriers

People in the age group of 60 and beyond, have been actually brought up in an orthodox setting. Sex was considered a taboo in their young age. It was never talked about. Now that sex is liberally talked about in this modern age, they are considered to be too old for it. In most parts of the world, sex is connected to marital duties. In some parts of the world sex is limited to procreation. In other parts of the world sex after a particular age, especially when your children grow up, is considered inappropriate.

Your Mind

These so called preset norms may hinder the natural expression of joy that is associated with the sexual experience. When your natural instincts begin to conflict with these social parameters, it results in a low self esteem. Your self esteem has a lot to do with the way you feel about sex after 60. So let’s discuss about self esteem. Your self esteem helps you to be in touch with yourself. Your quest for love helps you to do away with stagnation, and helps you to evolve. So, in order to evolve, you must be in touch with yourself. The problem arises when you live outside-in and not inside-out. This means that the situations on your outside influence your inside. Moreover, traditional teachings have made you think this way. For example: Your father or mother decides whether you are a good child or not. Your teacher’s decide whether you are a good student or not. And that’s perfectly OK! Your parents and teachers are supposed to guide you. But the problem arises when you always seek the approval of others, and that dictates your feelings about yourself. You stay out of the limelight because you have stopped trusting yourself. Your joys depend on what others say about you. You have wrongly trained yourself to think outward-in! You become dependent on outside validation to feel good about yourself. If you don’t seek this validation, there may even be a sense of inadequacy or guilt.

Handling Age

Many people cannot handle growing old. Some may look into the mirror and want to look as good as they did when they were younger. There’s nothing wrong with wanting to look younger, and maybe going to the plastic surgeon may also not be a bad idea. The problem arises when you feel all down and get all panicky about something that you should accept with maturity. If you want to be perfect, you may end up feeling guilty, lacking motivation and blaming yourself for everything. There’s no point fretting over something you cannot change. The truth is that you may never look like you looked when you were thirty. Here’s the catch: You can definitely feel the way you felt when you were thirty! On the flip side, many people may use their age as an excuse for their lack of zeal towards the issues of life. A lifetime of worries has worn them out. If you feel that your life is done at 60, it would never motivate you to have the right attitude towards sex. Good sex begins in the mind, so if your self esteem is good and you have the right attitude, the rest will be very easy.

Your Body

Another thing that plays a very important role in enjoying sex at 60 is your physical condition. Although our sexual wires are in place, our bodies seem to slow down. Most women let childbirth affect their sexuality. Moreover the reduction in hormones leads to a lack of sex drive. But let’s not make generalizations. Many women discover their sexuality from 40 years to 60 years of age. They have more time for themselves and are more relaxed to explore their sexuality. Men on the other hand can have great sex drives even at the age of 60. The problem could be a lack of sex drive on the part of their partners. But that is changing. Others suffer from reduced sex drive due to medical conditions. At 60 you obviously are not a beginner. You know what works for you and what doesn’t. Even though you are well aware of which button triggers which response, your mental inhibitions rob you of feeling the physical pleasures. You still remember the days of your youth, and the great sexual tendencies you had at that time. You are the same person and may very well be able to enjoy sex now. Yes, things may be slower but it definitely will be good. Allow yourself to relax mentally and physically. Remember that your nerves are still in place and working. Those nerves can still carry impulses as they explode in your brain. Good sex need not be kinky. But being a little naughty could do you good. It’s just an opportunity to bond with your partner. The juices may not be flowing as they were in your thirties, but sex could be as good as ever. Nowadays many are resorting to medications that can enhance their sex drive. Once you get into the habit of having sex, your body may respond and make you feel younger. After all, sex was designed to bring the mental, emotional, physical and spiritual abilities to come together in perfect unison, resulting in a kind of satisfaction that has positive effects on both your mind and body. And what could be a better age than 60 to achieve this state

Most of the people who are addicted to sex are corporets with a great deal of power. They are CEO to great companies and priests to world renowned churches. They are much disturbed by the sex problem that they pay huge amounts of cash to get treated. A clinical director of sexual disorder in Meadows confesses to treating people who would not want anybody else to know their ordeal. In a recent interview with a local magazine he said that in the last one year he has treated close to 500 CEO. The services were in so much demand that in the southern part of Meadows state another sex addiction facility has been opened to deal with patients who are under intensive care program. It is so serious that there is a long waiting list for patients despite the high cost of $22100 for an entire one month.

The cost might sound high but there is still hope for those who cannot afford. The Sex addiction and Compulsivity National Council receive around 50 e-mails each week and a range of 40-45 calls each day from people addicted to sex seeking for cure. They are treated by 100 qualified therapists with good experience on sex addiction. There are also several treatments on cyber sex addiction and the problem is becoming prevalent. Sex addiction is not all about perversion, pornography or exhibition. These are people you see everyday along the streets and along the corridors at work. The major characteristics of sex addicts are that they are power hungry and egomaniacs who are heavy drunkards and women are part of their driving force.

In fact there is a study which was done about prostitutes and the researchers ended up with a book named Sexual profile of men in power. According to the findings most of the clients were politicians and what we can call executive suite. What is sex addiction? Is it hyper sexuality or a symptomatic behavior leading to anxiety disorder or maniac depression. It is true according to a psychiatry professor at John Hopkins university. There is a shift in the social context and most lawsuit do not hire people addicted to sex as bosses or leaders. In the political climate, sex addiction is more intense than alcoholism by far. The martinis provide a good environment for sex addiction to prosper. Most people who matured during sex revolution are not able to handle anxiety and pressure to produce without having sex at the end of the day.

People addicted to sex go for cyber sex, prostitutes, phone sex when they feel the urge to relieve themselves. They might do this after every thirty minutes and then go back to work or meeting with no hangover. The successful professionals are more likely to become sex addicts. The society is increasingly becoming sexual day by day as we see it on the papers, TV shows and even on the advertisements. Sex has replaced so many things in the society. It has taken the place of trust, love and care. The people who have unlimited Internet access are the professionals and it is so easy to solicit pornography and exciting materials. You will not probably get caught or catch some sexually transmitted disease. There is no harm and that is how people get addicted.

It is quite interesting to know that porn websites are the ones that exploit the images and graphics to full extent. A porn website designer creates stimulating graphics that pull larger audiences to the site. Now, the porn web design must be such that the images look more attractive and interesting than on the regular websites. This calls for an image editing and enhancement tool, which creates distinct and high quality images.

Image cropping is an image-editing tool that comes handy. Image cropping is basically a process in which a part of an image is removed in order to get a better result. This cropping tool is available with all good image-editing software. So, the firms providing professional porn website design services make extensive use of image cropping. This tool provides advantages in porn website design such as:



Chopping off the unwanted portion of an image so that visitors’ attention remains focused on the subject. Balancing of the images i.e. a specific portion of the image can be centered or de-centered accordingly. Image sizes and frames can be chosen as per the requirement irrespective of the original format of the image.

The above-mentioned points are significant from a porn website design perspective. Since porn web design specifically highlights models and porn stars, it becomes necessary to present them in a desirable manner. The porn website designer employs the cropping technique to produce such effects. He/she chops off the unnecessary portion of images and highlights the relevant part. Moreover, the options of horizontal and vertical frames for the same image offer a designer more choice to present the content.

The use of cropping for images finds application in porn website promotion as well. For example, the porn website design services design advertisement banners. Obviously, full size images cannot be placed in the banners. Hence, the cropped images are fitted into those promotional banners. Therefore, the porn website promotion sends the message across with the relevant images.

Internet porn is ruining marriages. But by using a porn filter on your computer, you can actually avoid the problem from ever appearing.

Where once, getting hold of hardcore pornography took some effort, in today’s online world, absolutely anyone and everyone has access to an abundance of adult content and websites – from softcore, to hardcore to homemade porn. What does this mean for many men out there? It is possible to spend time at work and at home browsing porn without anyone knowing. And more easily and more commonly than most people realize, many of those men become addicted to porn. And admitting, even to yourself, that you suffer from porn addiction is not easy. It is also easier to hide than many other addictions. A gambling habit eventually shows up in your wallet. An alcohol addiction will eventually lead to obvious problems in your behavior. But the Internet allows people to hide their x-rated habit.

Well, if they succeed to hide it, why worry?

First of all, if someone is addicted to Internet pornography, their virtual life starts taking more  time away from their real life. Second, they start to need their porn “fix” more and more often. The behavior and symptoms of a compulsive pornography habit is not unlike that of any other compulsive problem or addiction.

Porn addiction is a real addiction with psychologists, books, and recovery groups offering to cure and treat the addiction.

So just stop and get back to reality

Internet addiction is not like a drug addiction where any use is outright bad. It’s not like gambling, where you can tell there is a problem when you burn a whole in your savings. We all use the Internet and its done great things for us. We buy stuff, order concert tickets, pay bills, make new friends, find lost relatives, read the news, etc. So spending a lot of time online is not unusual – and until one recognizes the problem in themselves or others begin to notice a change in behavior, it can take a long time. Not to mention, for any wife, it vcan be highly embarassing to admit even to herself that her husband may be a porn addict.

Is there a way to avoid the problem from even developing?

An online porn addiction is characterized by a difficulty to limit time spent online viewing adult websites. More and more regular people find themselves hooked – women, men, teens, etc. Pathological use of Internet  porn can be avoided easily and it is worthwhile to be proactive and not wait and see if there is a problem. By installing a porn filter to block out pornography from reaching your computer screen, you can eliminate the temptation that Internet porn presents becuase you simply block your husband, or anyone else using the computer from being able to visit web sites that have adult content and images.

A web filter, such as Optenet PC can be easily installed on your computer. It is an easy way to curb a porn addiction problem as well as to manage your total Internet environment.

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